{"id":346114,"date":"2025-04-05T17:25:15","date_gmt":"2025-04-05T21:25:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/?p=346114"},"modified":"2025-04-10T17:39:32","modified_gmt":"2025-04-10T21:39:32","slug":"where-your-gaze-goes-your-life-follows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/post\/where-your-gaze-goes-your-life-follows\/","title":{"rendered":"Where Your Gaze Goes, Your Life Follows"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Many men take pride in being keen observers, aware of everything happening around them. While this can be a positive trait, some may focus <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">their gaze<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> on inappropriate or illicit content. The consequences of this focus can be detrimental. For instance, some married men may look at other women and engage in extramarital affairs without understanding that these actions can ultimately destroy their marriages.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>The Trap of Digital Distractions<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-346117 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2025\/04\/church-website-post-62-300x197.jpg\" alt=\"Where Your Gaze Goes, Your Life Follows\" width=\"210\" height=\"138\" srcset=\"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2025\/04\/church-website-post-62-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2025\/04\/church-website-post-62-318x209.jpg 318w, https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2025\/04\/church-website-post-62.jpg 730w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 210px) 100vw, 210px\" \/>Men\u2019s eyes <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">are often drawn<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> to their cell phones, computers, and television screens, which offer a vast amount of information at the touch of a button. The problem arises when this endless stream of content also includes harmful distractions, such as addictive games that consume both time and money.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>A Window for Adultery<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">The easy access to pornography on the internet further exacerbates this issue. Likewise, the availability of online dating makes it simple for many men to indulge in affairs and seek extramarital encounters. It all begins with a single look.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Good and Bad Eyes<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">The Bible provides a warning from Jesus in <strong>Matthew 6:22-23:<\/strong> <em><strong>\u201c<span class=\"text Matt-6-22\"><span class=\"woj\">The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is<\/span> <span class=\"woj\">good, your whole body will be full of light.<\/span> <\/span><span id=\"en-NKJV-23306\" class=\"text Matt-6-23\"><span class=\"woj\">But if your eye is<\/span> <span class=\"woj\">bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great\u00a0<i>is<\/i>\u00a0that darkness!<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><em><strong>\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">An intelligent man recognizes that the eyes <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">serve as<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> a gateway to both good and evil. <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Each individual decides whether to absorb light or darkness, <\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">and this choice shapes their thoughts and guides<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> their actions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>You Decide<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">We must understand that our eyes convey information, influence our judgments, and affect our choices. For example, when you go to a restaurant, you often choose your meal based on what looks appealing. Your desire for a dish changes if it doesn\u2019t visually appeal to you. Ultimately, you decide whether what you see is good for you. The same principle applies to all aspects of life: you determine whether your gaze is good or bad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Wake Up Now<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">According to <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.universal.org\/en\/renato-cardoso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bishop Renato Cardoso<\/a><\/span>, if your eyes seek out evil, your mind will be clouded, making it difficult to pray. <em>\u201cWhen will you wake up to this? When will you stop allowing dirt, filth, and darkness into your life? If you went to the doctor with a health issue, and they informed you that your diet was the cause, you would likely change what you eat. But the harm caused by what you view is even worse than unhealthy food!\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 cautions the bishop.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Intellimen<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Are you interested in becoming a better man? The monthly<strong>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/category\/intellimen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Intellimen<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/strong>meeting is designed for men who want to improve themselves in all areas of their lives. It\u2019s a gathering where men support each other, share helpful advice, and make a commitment to work hard every day to become better husbands, fathers, brothers, sons, friends, boyfriends, employees, business owners, students, servants of God, and members of society, overall, better persons.<\/p>\n<p>To learn more about\u00a0<strong>Intellimen\u00a0<\/strong>and its upcoming meeting, please visit\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/locations\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Universal Church<\/a><\/span>\u00a0near you and speak with the pastor, or call\u00a0<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"tel:18883324141\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1-888-332-4141<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>for additional information.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Many men take pride in being keen observers, aware of everything happening around them. While this can be a positive trait, some may focus their gaze on inappropriate or illicit content. The consequences of this focus can be detrimental. 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