<\/p>\n Soon after, the Love Therapy meeting began, led by Bishop Renato Cardoso and his wife Cristiane. They spoke about the right tools for a successful love life.<\/p>\n If the ax is dull, And one does not sharpen the edge, Then he must use more strength; But wisdom brings success. (Ecclesiastes 10:10)<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u201cThis verse teaches us the importance of being prepared and using the right tools both in practical life and in love. Just as a woodcutter needs a sharp axe to make his work easier, we also need wisdom and adequate tools to improve our relationships,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 said the bishop.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n In our daily lives, we use tools to make our tasks easier. Likewise, in our love life, the right tools can help us in:<\/p>\n \u2022 Solving recurring problems:<\/strong> Practical strategies, such as the \u201c10-Second Eraser,\u201d can turn arguments into mutual learning. These tools prevent us from doubling our efforts unnecessarily and promote harmony and mutual growth.<\/p>\n Starting next week, we will begin a special purpose in the Love Therapy. We will introduce a practical tool at each meeting. You will learn how to:<\/p>\n \u2022 Defuse conflicts before they escalate; \u201cWith the use of the right tools, you will discover that small adjustments can generate big transformations in your love life,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 reinforced Cristiane.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n In the biblical context, it was the man\u2019s responsibility to locate water, dig the well, and protect it. His strength and determination were essential to ensuring the survival of his family and community. He faced challenges such as digging in the wrong places and starting over until he found water. He also had to defend the well from external threats.<\/p>\n On the other hand, it was the woman\u2019s job to draw water from the well and carry it home, as illustrated in the story of the Samaritan woman. They fulfilled these roles without resentment or dispute. There was mutual understanding and respect, reflecting a natural and functional partnership.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Cristiane explains that there is often a conflict of roles in modern relationships, influenced by external voices or \u201cpolluted sources.\u201d The result is a lack of unity, respect, and harmony, which can lead to marriage breakdown.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u201cThe problem arises when there is disrespect or competition within the relationship. The solution is to drink from the right source: the water Jesus offers. He promises that whoever drinks this water will never thirst again and will become a fountain of eternal life,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 he concluded.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The\u00a0Love Therapy <\/a><\/span>meetings aim to help couples and singles solve issues in their love lives.\u00a0They take place every Thursday at 7 PM at select locations of\u00a0The Universal Church<\/a>.<\/span> Call\u00a01-888-332-4141<\/a>,<\/span>\u00a0text 1-888-312-4141, or visit\u00a0The Universal Church<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>for more information.<\/span><\/p>\n![\"The](\"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/8\/2025\/01\/TdoA-23-01-2025-300x200.jpg\")
The event\u2019s main theme was \u201cThe First Look,\u201d in addition to interactive dynamics, such as the \u201cMATCH Tent\u201d and support from the \u201cQuero Te Conhecer\u201d<\/em> app. The meeting highlighted personal preparation as essential for love life, promoting self-knowledge and trust in God\u2019s timing.<\/p>\nTools for Intelligent Love<\/strong><\/h4>\n
Practical Tools in Love Life<\/strong><\/h4>\n
\n\u2022 Strengthening communication:<\/strong> Know how to approach sensitive topics respectfully and effectively.
\n\u2022 Preventing conflict:<\/strong> Recognize signs of problems before they become major issues.
\n\u2022 Enhancing camaraderie:<\/strong> Work as a team to overcome challenges and achieve common goals.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 Deal with inappropriate behavior;
\n\u2022 Resolve financial or routine disagreements;
\n\u2022 Apply principles from God\u2019s Word to real situations.<\/p>\nThe Well: Lessons From Roles in the Bible and Marriage<\/strong><\/h4>\n
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In the second part of the Love Therapy meeting, Bishop Renato commented on the lessons of the well. \u201cIn the Bible, the concept of the \u2018well\u2019 is mentioned several times and is a profound symbol of sustenance, purpose, and partnership. The well was not only a source of water but also a space where the differences in roles between men and women were clearly delineated, reflecting the harmony in fulfilling distinct functions,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 he said.<\/p>\nThe Role of Men and Women in the Well<\/strong><\/h4>\n
The Relevance of Roles in Marriage<\/strong><\/h4>\n
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Just like in a well, roles must be well defined in marriage. Each person must fulfill their role with excellence, without conflict or comparisons. This does not mean a lack of mutual support but rather the appreciation of what each person brings to the relationship.<\/p>\nRespect and Unity<\/strong><\/h4>\n
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Bishop Renato added, \u201cFor marriage to function according to God\u2019s plan, it is essential that spouses accept and respect their roles. This does not imply rigidity or universal standards; each couple can adapt their responsibilities according to their abilities and needs.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\nThe Love Therapy<\/strong><\/h4>\n