{"id":342867,"date":"2024-09-24T11:46:59","date_gmt":"2024-09-24T15:46:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/?p=342867"},"modified":"2024-10-21T13:06:22","modified_gmt":"2024-10-21T17:06:22","slug":"your-cell-phone-masks-your-lies-or-shows-who-you-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/universalchurchusa.org\/en\/post\/your-cell-phone-masks-your-lies-or-shows-who-you-are\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Cell Phone Masks Your Lies or Shows Who You Are"},"content":{"rendered":"

Many men will go to great lengths to avoid showing their wives what’s on their phones. There are some extreme examples, like a recent incident in Florida,<\/a><\/span> where a man on a boat with his girlfriend was approached by the police. Without ID, his girlfriend suggested they use his phone to show a document or call for help, but he refused to give her his passcode. In an act of desperation, he jumped into the sea, trying to flee. As he swam away, his girlfriend ended their relationship. The man was arrested later.<\/p>\n

While this might seem like an overreaction, many men are similarly terrified of revealing their phone\u2019s contents to their wives or partners\u2014and maybe you feel the same way. When questioned, some hide behind claims of privacy. However, in many cases, this is just an excuse to conceal something they don\u2019t want their partner to see, such as questionable friendships, access to pornography, certain online chat groups, or even extramarital affairs. These are just a few examples.<\/p>\n

\"\"Bishop Renato Cardoso<\/a> addressed this issue, \u201cThis isn\u2019t about snooping; a healthy relationship doesn\u2019t need snooping or secrecy. Only a spouse who lacks confidence and self-respect accepts this kind of situation. I can\u2019t imagine my wife having a password on her phone that I don\u2019t know, or vice versa.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

The privacy argument holds even less weight in a marriage. When two people unite in marriage, they become one, establishing a bond of trust that should be built on mutual respect and openness.<\/p>\n

According to Bishop Renato, married men need to stop using the hypocritical \u2018privacy\u2019 excuse when it comes to their phones. \u201cIt\u2019s just a mask. If you look at my phone, you\u2019ll see who I am. That\u2019s why so many people argue about passwords and privacy in marriage. There is no privacy in marriage. Whoever defends it, whoever fights hard to protect their privacy in marriage, is hiding something. That\u2019s the reality,\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 he says.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re uncomfortable with your partner seeing something on your phone, it\u2019s a sign that it probably shouldn\u2019t be there\u2014or in your life at all. Don\u2019t engage in behavior you\u2019re ashamed of. Be honest. Be a man.<\/p>\n

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Intellimen<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Are you interested in becoming a better man? The monthly\u00a0Intellimen<\/strong><\/a><\/span>\u00a0meeting is designed for men who want to improve themselves in all areas of their lives. It\u2019s a gathering where men support each other, share helpful advice, and make a commitment to work hard every day to become better husbands, fathers, brothers, sons, friends, boyfriends, employees, business owners, students, servants of God, and members of society, overall, better persons.<\/p>\n

To learn more about Intellimen and its upcoming meeting, please visit\u00a0The Universal Church<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>near you and speak with the Pastor, or call\u00a01-888-332-4141<\/a><\/span>\u00a0for additional information.<\/p>\n

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